Formal Wedding Invitations PC Way To Address Of Formal Wedding Invitations?

PC way to address of formal wedding invitations? - formal wedding invitations

In addressing formal wedding invitations, what is the best way not to say Mr. and Mrs. John Doe on the envelope without seeming old-fashioned and formal left? I always hated that woman's name is not listed here, but I'm not sure how to get in a way that women recognize their own person and still reflects the formality of the occasion to write. Mr. John and Mrs. Jane Doe seems a little worried.
Any feminist with a touch of the label around? Thanks for any help.